I have to tell my dd that she can't come home for a visit on Saturday because she got into trouble yesterday. They will call me during a meeting tomorrow so I can give her the news since I am her parent. She has to know these rules will be the same at home. It sucks on so many levels, but it might be the incident that sews it up. Not just jets over the Statue of Liberty. Real liberty for her and I. As mom and daughter. That's a good thing and a good mindset. So while my mind is set, I will go.